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I'm going to be honest, this is a cry for help more than anything.Since Apr… |
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@rowens Avoiding the news and Reddit doomscrolling cycle as much as possible. E… |
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I'm holding on in the face of all this hate and transphobia largely due to … |
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@rowens The fact that I exist lives rent free in the richest man in the world&#… |
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Post #Axu5dQF5ooT2lx3iIy by [email protected] |
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@rowens Here are a few things that have helped me (YMMV):- Completely ignoring … |
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@rowens seconding what some other people have said, I tend to avoid keeping clo… |
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@rowens I'm a cis man, so I can't offer practical advice about being tr… |
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@rowens hello I am cis female, but newly discovered AuDHD, having struggled all… |
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@rowens Are you aware of @tillybridges and her Trans Tuesday podcasts? |
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Post #Axu5pMGQR7EDuNNE7U by [email protected] |
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@alexlomas @rowens Given the subject matter, are boosts okay? I frankly think t… |
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@cwicseolfor Go for it! |
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@rowens Always bear in mind, those who challenge you are incredibly insecure … |
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@JessTheUnstill @rowens I believe it was Camus that said there is no fate that … |
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@rowens Towards "teens" but nice for everyone https://www.scarleteen.… |
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Post #Axu5y1bwaoW8ScZUiO by [email protected] |
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@rowens one day at a time really. It continues to be an thing. |
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@rowens @ami_angelwingsI don't know if this is any consolation, but here… |
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@rowens I also find this difficult. The things I have been doing that help a bi… |
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@rowens here's what helps me. I have a disabled family member who obsesses… |
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@rowens Outside of that, I have made my home my fortress and my microstate. Wh… |
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@rowens anyone that learned vb.net has my respect. Hang in there Rachel and do… |
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Post #Axu6CZdYshlQ2qGWSu by [email protected] |
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@rowens like other people have said, avoid the news as much as possible, gettin… |
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@rowens 🫂 |
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@rowens all the things others have said plus gardening and cuddling my cat. The… |
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@rowens oh and I'm sure the Lexapro helps |
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@rowens i'm gender fluid born man, and i spend 95% of my time as a woman wi… |
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@rowens sheer bloody mindedness, and a stack of bricks ready. |
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@rowens as others have said, I block the news and don’t watch any. On the Fed… |
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@roadriverrail @JessTheUnstill @rowens yep. I have a pin that says "surviv… |
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@Tiffany Thank you for your advice. Do you have any recommendations for trans i… |
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Thank you all so much for your messages, responses and boosts. I’m incredibly… |
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@cadey Thank you, I’ll try and remember this. I do often fall into the trap o… |
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@alexlomas Thank you for your advice and suggestions. Ditching the news has bee… |
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@JessTheUnstill Thank you for your message. I’m quite happy to live rent free… |
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@rowens Yeah, you can still get jump scared when least expecting it I guess. Bu… |
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@AngleseyStick Haha, I have my uncle to thank for that. I think I was introduce… |
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@malcircuit Thank you for your advice. I’ve long abandoned the news and as yo… |
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@mllsc Thank you for your message. Similar to you I don’t do activism, I know… |
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@didier Thank you :) |
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@jaycee Thank you for your kind words. |
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@VictoriaFerryRetroGeek Thank you for your suggestions. I do try to be kind and… |
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@Thebratdragon Haha, thank you. We used to make really strong bricks where I’… |
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@Chloeg I have a few filters, I suspect I might need to create some more. Thank… |
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@rowens me fuckin too lol, this year has made me relapse on my depression |
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@roadriverrail Thank you for your message. I’m fortunate that when I’m with… |
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@kinsale42 Thank you for your message. As a species, I would like to think we h… |
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@JessTheUnstill @rowens Make sure you keep that up! |
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@therivercrow I think keeping busy is hugely important. I tend to falter when I… |
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@littlescraps Thank you. I appreciate the virtual hugs. |
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@solitha @tillybridges I wasn’t aware of this, thank you for sharing :) |
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@rowens I can only hope you find it helpful. Good luck and best wishes, Rachel. |
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@CharlesMicah @ami_angelwings Things like this do fill me with hope, I do loose… |
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@grayhaven Thank you for sharing this. It’s encouraging |
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@rowens Yeah that's totally real and understandable.The other thing I'v… |
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@CppGuy Thank you for your kind words |
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@rowens There will be low points. The secret is to not believe the low points … |
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@rowens 🫂 |
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@rowens yeah. you are welcome, I may not be able to change any laws but I can c… |
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@Specialist_Being_677 @JessTheUnstill @rowens some days I do too. And what you… |
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@rowens There's a lot of hostility about right now, and while one of the be… |
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@rowens Learning-supporter here. I don't know what to say other than that … |
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@rowens No idea what other advice I could give you than to hold yourself togeth… |
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@AngelaScholder Thank you. The voices of the transphobes certainly seems to hav… |
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@rowens First, hugs if accepted.Beyond that, I think the main thing is to keep … |
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@NicolaElle Thank you for sharing this advice. I feel like I really need to put… |
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@rowens sort of bewildered, but honestly, I've been hated my entire life fo… |
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@senanthic Thank you for your message. |
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@rowens @thomasfuchs two approaches. I have become very productive with vehicle… |
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@cyberspice @thomasfuchs Thank you for your message. I do need to find things t… |
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@rowens @cyberspice @thomasfuchs [Rachel's partner here]... I can always gi… |
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@rowens wish i had some advice but i've felt hte same way for like the past… |
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@wintervoid01 I hope some of the advice shared here works for you too. |
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@rowens it may not feel like that sometimes, but we love you! People can be cru… |
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@GeKalash Thank you for your message and support |
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@rowens It's hard to counter negativity, but I'll say it out loud anywa… |
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@Firlefanz Thank you for your message |
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@myzanilred Thank you for your message and support |
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@JustRosy Thank you for sharing these links, I'll take a look. |
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@rowensI personally try to... Ignore it and just go on with my life. The best t… |
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@AlexInBlue Thank you for your message and advice. |
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@GwenDragon @cyberspice @thomasfuchs I should probably re-run those ethernet ca… |
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@rowens Hey, FWIW, as a cis-het old white guy, you truly have my sympathy. I c… |
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@Uair Thank you for your message |
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@rowens I have a little checklist. The disproportionate amount of negative pres… |
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@vulgalour Thank you for your message. I absolutely agree with what you’ve sa… |
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@rowens For me, alot of the negativity/hostility came from other people, i slow… |
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@Tengu Thank you for your message. I’m glad to hear you’re in a better plac… |
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@rowens how I am I coping? a) pure spite. I’m keeping a list of people I want… |
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@bee Thank you for your message and advice. I think I might also play a bit of … |
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@rowens following this thread for hope.I try to concentrate, as much as possibl… |
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@jrdepriest Thank you for your message |
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@rowensI have no advice, I'm a cis woman so it is not my place to offer adv… |
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@PetraPhoenix Thank you :) |
