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Post #Av3NpfU8h910M8QgG8 by [email protected] |
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I went to a talk lately that was mostly about something else, but the speaker c… |
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Post #Av3Npg9yBcTYRs05Sa by [email protected] |
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Hah, posting this makes me realize exactly why I get frustrated when volunteer … |
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Post #Av3T8FSQBmKKuCIxvM by [email protected] |
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@morganth TBH, I tend to think that people *don't* really like being asked … |
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Post #Av3T8FZ9mjiNF5SLQG by [email protected] |
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@lykso @morganth I would qualify this - most people don't like being asked … |
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Post #Av3T8FfXP0opYsRRMu by [email protected] |
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@ciggysmokebringer @lykso That is a good nuance and I agree. |
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Post #Av3T8FmGzyCrtlaoro by [email protected] |
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@morganth @ciggysmokebringer I think there's also an element of feeling int… |
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Post #Av3T9Ui0yBYIUrC0Q4 by [email protected] |
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@morganth does this feed in some way into how men don’t like asking direction… |
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Post #Av3TAUt9mrIvLMsmOW by [email protected] |
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@morganth oh very cool.Thanks for sharing, because even more of us will remembe… |
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Post #Av3TAlCX8aJJw64Tom by [email protected] |
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@morganth I read somewhere (article about psychology I think) that letting peop… |
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Post #Av3TCblDCzmrEfAmhM by [email protected] |
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@morganth With respect, I disagree. Most people don't like helping people, … |
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Post #Av3TCbqsruK9WFpJXU by [email protected] |
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@techsinger @Tamasg As a person, I don’t agree with you. I do a lot of volunt… |
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Post #Av3TCjFbMPFsSwReXQ by [email protected] |
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@morganth playing devils' advocate here: everyone likes to help, but not ev… |
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Post #Av3TDDqraQt1NC6pma by [email protected] |
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@morganth several years back I was in a terrible headspace due to targeted bull… |
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Post #Av3TDDxFChzTgz5vjE by [email protected] |
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@libramoon @morganth Someone I knew had terminal cancer. There was a room full … |
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Post #Av3TDLMJftCmelsYHQ by [email protected] |
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@morganth That's very good. I'm going to remember that. |
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Post #Av3TDrwEXswvhQvghs by [email protected] |
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@morganth I presonally struggle with this. I am the first to jump in and help s… |
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Post #Av3TEUonzRBGHgko2i by [email protected] |
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@morganth And please outline anything you don't understand- :neocat_scream:… |
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Post #Av3TEwxdMCsbZB6Fgu by [email protected] |
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@morganth People are funny and weird and good. This is an insight, just like le… |
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Post #Av3TFFAheM1s2vLwYq by [email protected] |
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@morganth Balance is important between being a Giver & a Receiver ~ too muc… |
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Post #Av3TFoph3wc8eBnfoO by [email protected] |
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@libramoon @morganthThat's horrible, what an awful way of finding out that … |
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Post #Av3TG8suVh4SpxSWbQ by [email protected] |
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@morganth someone put it to me similarly: When you don't ask for help you g… |
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Post #Av3TGLvs00A9ItwZWK by [email protected] |
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@morganth so very true! Really speaks to me |
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Post #Av3TGkAZsyBiTT0emG by [email protected] |
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@morganth There’s a huge difference between wanting to help and actually bein… |
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Post #Av3TIe5hSOOqCVdQYa by [email protected] |
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@libramoon @morganth Those people are not your friends. |
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Post #Av3TJFr92xKtKN7L96 by [email protected] |
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@morganthBeautiful. |
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Post #Av3TJXwPo6FNPvinrM by [email protected] |
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@morganth @Tamasg Granted, but the volunteer work was your idea. It wasn't … |
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Post #Av3TJjUqqPKRFuuxYu by [email protected] |
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@morganth I think there's some nuance to this (isn't there always? 😅… |
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Post #Av3TJjbaRMiTao4L3o by [email protected] |
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@nicklockwood I think there's a lot of truth in what you say. Encouraged by… |
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Post #Av3TLIlBDn1eueIryq by [email protected] |
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@Queen1066 @morganth I think that's entirely to do with how men think. They… |
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Post #Av3TLJwCqHRKZ8TBo0 by [email protected] |
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@techsinger @Tamasg That is a legit point. I think there are a lot of people (I… |
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Post #Av3TMUXauE7zjwW44u by [email protected] |
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@lykso @morganth in my experience, the help people want to provide rarely match… |
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Post #Av3TNyupSVNWEe5v4C by [email protected] |
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@morganth That's fascinating! That'll stick with me too.Thank you for s… |
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Post #Av3TO7UvYB0Uqv2rRY by [email protected] |
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@morganth But what if people don't actually like helping other people, but … |
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Post #Av3TPBu2eqJQnvIqki by [email protected] |
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@mwt @morganth Right. People like to feel helpful, and they like the feeling of… |
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Post #Av3TPQ6bqugSqxI5Hk by [email protected] |
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@lykso I can only speak for myself but I genuinely do, unless it’s someone wh… |
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@libramoon @morganth 😞 sorry |
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@Tech Singer You also have to keep in mind that the speaker was addressing a sp… |
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Post #Av3TRTQsSDMDkakZ0a by [email protected] |
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@libramoon That's awful. Gives you a very clear picture of how much your fr… |
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Post #Av3WyuH1yoKmPpmJ0a by [email protected] |
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@morganth I fucking love that (and helping people)! |
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@scott That's certainly possible. I was not considering anything about the … |
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@Tech Singer True. Too many people pretend to be whatever makes them look good.… |
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@morganth look for a senior center or local small business or even an individua… |
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Post #Av3ldTH4fMGNuU2FHM by [email protected] |
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@morganth Yes. I'm bad at asking for help, frequently would like to offer i… |
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Post #Av3lyWzW2gDjWDrfEG by [email protected] |
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@morganth As others have said, one issue is getting the needs of one person and… |
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@dch I expect he wouldn't mind having me share his identity. I'll DM y… |
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@morganth wow I got to build this into something on the next possible occasion,… |
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Post #Av9UUG8PcKNeHNlTkG by [email protected] |
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@lykso @morganth personally it depends whether I feel like the asker values my … |
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Post #Av9UhqH2Z1aG7yHG5o by [email protected] |
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@morganth a comment from someoe who is #ActuallyAutistic and on the drop beyond… |
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Post #Av9UnDGAWvkWrhQlSy by [email protected] |
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@Rickd6 Thanks, that's a good suggestion. |
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Post #Av9UokGTIvRHW9Iqcy by [email protected] |
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@morganth Oh, genius move! |
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@morganth I mean it really depends from the person who is asking for help and t… |
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@morganth That’s such a powerful reminder. Asking for help isn’t weakness�… |
