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Post #Atyo3qWi1HQ9s7jmmO by [email protected] |
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I don't have children. What happens if you consistently *don't* impose… |
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Post #AtyoNIBTPj1D9V4r7A by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez they are exhausted in the morning usually are school is much le… |
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Post #AtyoZN0NJcBRZye4Iq by [email protected] |
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@BubblegumYeti - did you try consistently not imposing a bedtime? |
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Post #AtyomocRxSaszHrjnc by [email protected] |
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@Scmbradley - so you tried not imposing a bedtime for, say, more than a month? |
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Post #Atyorap6g6b1eG41ce by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez @Scmbradley I wouldn't survive that. |
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Post #Atyr3RnEHItT1axxbM by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez I think I would have gone mad. As a parent I needed some space … |
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Post #Atysf98YBnag7dTlTM by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez In the world of instant gratification devices, messed up dopami… |
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Post #AtyskvIsXCZMxL44H2 by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez I know two close families that consistently don't, and the … |
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Post #AtywBbDpbXQGM87E5A by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez depends on the child. My eldest put himself to bed at the same… |
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Post #AtyylfKhztahRHeqbA by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez I have small grandchildren. They impose a bedtime on me. They i… |
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Post #Atyzg0LB4wRgoFk2mO by [email protected] |
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@Rowena - I have even less experience of being a grandparent than I do of being… |
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Post #Atz0a5CYC2W86NRkYq by [email protected] |
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@flq @johncarlosbaez Exactly! In the hunter-gatherer society, light was the reg… |
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Post #Atz0a5IvoJcaQAQqVU by [email protected] |
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@BartoszMilewski @flq - so you folks may be predicting that in, say, traditiona… |
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Post #Atz20cPRRvISZsh3Dc by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez Let's negotiate the sense! Every parent approves. |
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Post #Atz6J0mtwva3DOgzmS by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez are you more interested in the social consequences (for the kid… |
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Post #AtzDg6xlr5PIhtjqIi by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez I once forced a mid day nap on a child that I was baby sitting … |
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Post #AtzGP9VTRdOnXG6jp2 by [email protected] |
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@jaztrophysicist - So you're saying it's like "what if you jump in… |
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Post #AtzHYgyYTcrPtkp5No by [email protected] |
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@dsjl - most parents I know impose a bedtime on their children, often rather fo… |
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Post #AtzYVafx8sXGi9EFJA by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez It is a real philosophical issue. In the street this afternoon … |
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Post #Atzf1VI5IYYV09fIRc by [email protected] |
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@BradRubenstein - thanks! Actual research! |
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Post #Au00k1jG9X1bO0RoHo by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez Mildly off-topic, here's an interesting story about what ha… |
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Post #Au07mZPwZPiY7xZYsi by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez I think they would go to bed and get up in totally random hours… |
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Post #Au0hLpMskrSu81giR6 by [email protected] |
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@sohkamyung - nice, I hadn't read that. |
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Post #Au0kqBU7ODcLGwEu2q by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez children can’t self regulate like an adult. The bedtime is be… |
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Post #Au1qRNhfcN9ooL5uwi by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez I was a bit like your wife. It brings me back good memories.Fro… |
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Post #Au1sW8VHl1br1fhFSa by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez it can be a social construct and not a inherently bad thing. St… |
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Post #Au1vBsvqF6fgnn9YWG by [email protected] |
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@dsjl - you're raising this thought: maybe the issue of bedtimes for childr… |
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Post #Au9nCbTlNAGWasWxoO by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez Nothing happened with my daughters. We looked at each other, so… |
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Post #Au9nJULMIiG6USsmUi by [email protected] |
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@pait - that's interesting, because some people here are sure that not impo… |
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Post #Au9oGuOF6VXAMEZ6SO by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez Agree, different habits work for different people. For me expec… |
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Post #Au9ozCjSGm7vzDbolE by [email protected] |
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@pait - I find that very appealing. |
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Post #Au9pBfkEEB35RSuqmm by [email protected] |
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@johncarlosbaez I try to do that with students too - expect they’ll do reason… |
