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Post #Al3tPXCYckLpzIzAjQ by [email protected] |
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i think the optimal amount of people being upset with you (in relation to your … |
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Post #Al3tgJ40RRSd3wz1n6 by [email protected] |
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i also, unsurprisingly for those who know me, really dislike conflict avoidance… |
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Post #Al3ttKk5Vlcy29sWvI by [email protected] |
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i actually find it that it hurts quite a bit when people are upset at me, which… |
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Post #Al3u4D8A9TMdc0KH1U by [email protected] |
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@paco I think there's definitely work of substance and importance that ruff… |
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Post #Al3uDRgfOspvMeruDY by [email protected] |
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@whitequark oh i forgot to mention, it was all my fault then, because i lost my… |
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Post #Al3uDRlz575dd9M9VQ by [email protected] |
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@dysfun ahahaha yeah i love this pattern (i hate it)it's especially bad in … |
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Post #Al3uIk5UPpaHsd0MRk by [email protected] |
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@dysfun have you tried treating it more like information warfare? |
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Post #Al3uV6tdRGq85yMDxI by [email protected] |
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(side note: i'm not sure that RSD is a "disorder" or even a "… |
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Post #Al3udaStO3zK7LtIIa by [email protected] |
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@whitequark I think avoiding conflict at all cost also just leads to not learni… |
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Post #Al3uy5j8rhByroGiaO by [email protected] |
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@timonsku yes |
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Post #Al3v1AeT0nwR0cYBJg by [email protected] |
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@whitequark definitely a trauma response |
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Post #Al3vFOGBDIaDGhyEue by [email protected] |
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@kastope so, learning :3 |
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Post #Al3vMBPHOr0rQqSx2u by [email protected] |
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@whitequark RSD is a friend of my ADHD. My therapist told me that you can use s… |
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Post #Al3vY61PFO18Cnyovw by [email protected] |
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@alex I don't think medicalizing it does anything useful, you just cede age… |
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Post #Al3weS2gO7BSC1AgIy by [email protected] |
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@whitequark for me it at least feels like agency: I can stop and process why it… |
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Post #Al3weS8M31ikTbpD96 by [email protected] |
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@alex I'm all for doing whichever drugs you need (and not restricted by wha… |
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Post #Al3wwbPyGhGeU1ifIG by [email protected] |
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@whitequark I vaguely remember reading that perceived rejection has been found … |
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Post #Al3wwbWLsyN6nohlEu by [email protected] |
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@scherzog yes, that's my theory of it. which is really a good thing! learni… |
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Post #Al3wwboQnkpjhtACQ4 by [email protected] |
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@whitequark This got me thinking if anger also happens to work similarly (liter… |
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Post #Al3wzpzKYKO8XbnjAu by [email protected] |
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@scherzog oh, that sorta tracks! I think it might be a halo thing |
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Post #Al3xwjf3ig7y0IP6bQ by [email protected] |
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@whitequark hmmm! |
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Post #Al3y0cehi02dQz5j0a by [email protected] |
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@whitequark interesting! where is conceptual ground for you in this? I see this… |
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Post #Al3y0cr6xrxy3StdLc by [email protected] |
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@alex I described it as medicalization since in cases like this the treatment i… |
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Post #Al3y85cEQyAdHOUmw4 by [email protected] |
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@alex you needed to be put in a box so eventually you got put in a box, and bef… |
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Post #Al3yErF2H7Akj4sC5g by [email protected] |
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@whitequark mhm~ and even if they do, figuring out a working & "accept… |
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Post #Al3yErKLxLQSzZMRNY by [email protected] |
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@scherzog I find it that doing nothing (special) is very effective. survivors o… |
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Post #Al3yIUamQVFzdfmEim by [email protected] |
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@scherzog (also, I don't rely on or plan for banishing doubts. I don't … |
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Post #Al3z6n5PwKQPTc5jMW by [email protected] |
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@whitequark yeah, it’s my previous country as well. at that time there were l… |
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Post #Al3z6nBnYbWrnP4pJA by [email protected] |
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@alex we had to figure out almost everything ourselves, so... clearly that is o… |
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Post #Al3zEkFONaKszJY9r6 by [email protected] |
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@alex like, my position is that who gives a shit if it's a disorder or not … |
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Post #Al3ziwbR0SHFzmGC6y by [email protected] |
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@whitequark Hmm, a "comforting silence" of sorts? That... does check … |
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Post #Al3ziwh6fMoYHMuix6 by [email protected] |
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@scherzog i call what i do "talking to people normally" and i find th… |
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Post #Al3zyrrAQ8JtuODCAC by [email protected] |
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@whitequark reminds me of this passage in On Conflict and Consensus:"Forma… |
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Post #Al3zyrxC3j8mD520Ya by [email protected] |
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@esoterra that is definitely a part of itthere is also a part where i don't… |
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Post #Al406puRXmT0BbXmr2 by [email protected] |
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@whitequark it’s utterly disgusting and a bit sad that when you are disabled … |
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Post #Al406q07Ch0ITCCJhA by [email protected] |
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@alex it is what it isreach heaven by violence |
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Post #Al40GARkYYXwUHZY12 by [email protected] |
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@scherzog it is particularly opposed to "helping", though it's a … |
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Post #Al44TLxtRSr5nC9Mlk by [email protected] |
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@profdc9 truth |
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Post #Al4BgtFfh2rGTOrrEG by [email protected] |
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@whitequark then whats the optimal amount to be upset with others? Cuz when i w… |
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Post #Al4WDnQ2Om271SgVEG by [email protected] |
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@whitequark it can be learning. |
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Post #Al5xSSXHDSHAWDFMoq by [email protected] |
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@whitequark I do this quite a lot. Maybe I should avoid it. It always feels lik… |
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Post #Al5xSSdepjNcq0ESlU by [email protected] |
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@awe I understand how it'd feel like dishonesty, yeah. I've thought abo… |
