Should I get a cat?

I've gone without them for 13 months. I've spent most of my life with them.
I can barely keep the flat clean when it's just me and it's usually just me
because  my kid doesn't do much and my husband can't do much.

I wouldn't get a kitten. I want an adult cat that's fine louunging around and
can clean after herself. If I had a cat  now my spouse could lounge with it.

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