If you eat only when you 're hungry, if you don't feel guilty about what
you're eating, and if you stop eating when you're full---you are an
"intuitive eater."

Tips on how to change

..Reject the "diet mentality"
       Throw out the diet books and magazine articles that make rosy promises.
       If you allow even one small hope to linger that "a new and better diet"
       is just around the corner, you won't be free to discover intuitive
       eating.
..Honor your hunger
       Keep your body well-fed; otherwise, you can trigger a primal drive to
       overeat.  If you become very hungry, all your good eating intentions
       will vanish.
..Make peace with food
       Give yourself unconditional permission to eat.
..Respect your body
       Accept your genetic blueprint. It's difficult to reject the diet
       mentality if you're overly critical of your body shape.
..Feel your fullness
       Listen to your body for signal that you are no longer hungry.  Pause
       in the middle of eating and ask yourself how the food tastes and what
       your current "fullness" level is.
..Discover satisfaction
       When you eat that you really want in a pleasant environment, you feel
       satisfied and content.  By giving yourself this experience, you'll find
       that it takes much less food to decide when you've had enough.
..Cope with your emotions with out using food
       Find non-food ways to resolve stress, frustratrion, fatigue, anger,
       loneliness, etc.
..Challenge the food police
       Put your foot down and say "NO!" to thoughts that say you're "good" for
       skipping lunch or "bad" because you ate a piece of cake.
..Exercise
       Keep it simple--a little goes a long way.  Try 15 min of exercise before
       work and 15 minutes before dinner.
..Honor your health
       Make food choices that honor your health and you taste buds--while
       making you feel good.


Source:  Intuitive Eating:  A Recovery Book for the Chronic Dieter, Evelyn
Tribole and Elyse Resch, $21.95