if you're in a longdistance relp, then sometimes it's better to have some
groundrules so no one gets jealous or hurt
work out the groundrules, it might take some spice out of things but
losing a little spice might be compensated by having comfort/certainty and
where they were heading
if you don't do that, then the other thing to do with a longdistance relp
is to do what you say... if not know if you're seeing, then don't say.
