On freedom and slavery.
if you have no autonomy over yourself;
if you cannot act as a free person;
if ultimate diktat over your behavior does not come from yourself;
you have no self-possession. Yes? Right?
How can a person possibly govern and master others if he does not govern and master himself?
Can you command respect if you put yourself in a position which does not deserve respect?
Passivity is repellent.
(a personal aside:)
If that's how you would like to spend the rest of your life, be...my...guest.