society's a fable. you have people making choices. No basement
  required. Just learn basic civility. Smile and nod. Be friendly.
  Takes care of most of these 'issues'.   Oh I'm no philosopher.
  But I study people behavior and patterns of behavior, both
  individually and in groups. "I can't be an asshole - society is
  oppressing me!" Ok. If that's oppression, then BINGO, you're
  oppressed.   == Seems like it. Oppression via requiring unwanted
  conformity and you see yourself the victim == Just calling it
  like I see it. You're espousing a victim narrative. Plain as
  day. Change your narrative. Life's a lot easier that way. No
  more oppression. No more society to worry about. == Oh, I don't
  care about your point. I just wanted to make sure you weren't
  seeing yourself as a victim of society's oppression against the
  rights of the individual. Seems to me you're doing fine. You can
  have your theoretical point if you like. I just wanted to make
  sure I wasn't talking to someone feeling victimized. It's a
  crappy outlook on life tbh. You're doing fine like emoticon ==
  Bah, speak for yourself. I'm just gonna die a boring normal
  death in about 42-44 years, , give or take. No apocalypse for
  everybody else. Sorry. == True, yet nobody chose to be born
  [unless you believe you chose your mom + dad before you're born
  and stuff like that... some ppl do I guess]. So, just how it is.
  What you do about it is your choice though. ==