Instructions are the backup plan. Oh! Eureka moment!
I can analogize "It's not about the nail" to "I don't NEED the
instructions". [the 'I'm going to figure this out on my own and
I'd _really appreciate_ you not 'telling me what to do' or it'll
ruin something that really matters to me']
Males tend to need to work through 'making new stuff' without a
map.
Females tend to need to work through new feelings/emotional
states without a map.
Areas of expertise. The only way to become a Master is through
self-practice. Ah ha! [1]#yay I've always done both, hence the
sensation of social androgyny, as I always found each sphere
fascinating, whereas culturally you're supposed to pick-one.
_yay_ self-and-world-understood-better and I didn't even have
coffee ye. Thanks [2]Heather-Lee Mainville and Joey; I never
know where inspirations will come from and when.
References
Visible links
1.
https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/yay?hc_location=ufi
2.
https://www.facebook.com/heather.mainvillemabry?hc_location=ufi