^Remember this feeling as a kid? Even a hint of it and you get
  the same feeling again. The answer? Unless it *really was* your
  fault, don't believe it for a second. It's just the Blame Game.
  Well adjusted people don't play the game (it's supposed to stop
  in middle school) but you see it in couples a lot, in clubs and
  organizations - even in corporate America. Don't fall for it.
  It's a psychological trap.^