^Remember this feeling as a kid? Even a hint of it and you get
the same feeling again. The answer? Unless it *really was* your
fault, don't believe it for a second. It's just the Blame Game.
Well adjusted people don't play the game (it's supposed to stop
in middle school) but you see it in couples a lot, in clubs and
organizations - even in corporate America. Don't fall for it.
It's a psychological trap.^