^Everyone deserves to be taken seriously. This does not mean you
  need to take everything someone does or says seriously. That is
  behavior and performance, not their essence. Instead, it means
  this: "You are Important to Me. You. Matter.

  Carry those words in your mind with each encounter you have with
  each and every individual. Think them in my mind, whether the
  person is on the Internet, someone you can see in front of you,
  or someone on the phone.

  Do so, and your life will be enriched beyond measure, all
  without changing a single other thing, for you will see them as
  they ARE, not as they APPEAR TO BE. -Ken^