I originally tagged a "thank you" to you Heather but then I
  realized, "uh oh, by the way I wrote this, people will think I'm
  saying thanks to my enemy". I even had added, "As opposite of an
  enemy as a person can be." But that didn't help either. I
  ELIMINATED friend and enemies being opposites somehow hehehe. It
  doesn't answer the question of what to do about current enemies
  though, so it's not a perfected idea yet. "