yes, the brain is a strange animal!! We had a great phrase at an
old job of mine that I loved. It's "analysis paralysis" - you
start analyzing a situation, and next thing you know, you can't
take any action. sometimes inaction *is* the best choice - but
sometimes freezing "like a deer in the headlights" and we end up
getting hit by a car from inaction. i think it might be
partially a chemical ...reaction - excess adrenyline makes you
fight or flight (or freeze) - and I'm just like you - I find it
amusing when I end up getting stuck. One place I get stuck is
looking at a large menu at a drive-through window - I freeze up
and can't make a quick decision - so I learned to have two or
three default choices and just go with them so I don't have to
think about it. :) "