^Thought for the day: I had to pause and think about this for a
  moment. It really is true - secrecy SEEMS to bond people
  together, but its very weak and very temporary - more secrets
  have to piled on very quickly to maintain the bonds. Then
  secrecy becomes a way of life - and someone who keeps secrets
  with you, keeps secrets from you. (a culture of secrecy).
  Subgroups of sub-secrets form, and those subgroups split off and
  keep secrets from the subgroups and the main groups. Secrecy
  acheives the opposite of its intentions - instead of increasing
  power and control, it makes for a great weakness - a house of
  cards built on a windy day. (actually, I liked the keyhole in
  the eye - that's really why i reposted this, but I thought I'd
  make it a 'food for thought" item instead of, "Ooh, look at the
  keyhole - how symbolic!")^