Pam: Feminization of Boys - agreed 100%. Used to be boys were
  encouraged to be adventurous, take chances, learn to solve their
  own problems through inventiveness and creativity... and you're
  right - for boys, there's always football, which really is just
  about the last thing left thats in the 'boys-only' club. I agree
  in principle that some of the lines between sexes can be crossed
  or merged --... but there are always some things that are guy
  things, some things that are girl things. (and in the end, a kid
  should be encouraged to follow their interests (so long as
  they're not truly life-threatening!) - sometimes boys like
  typically girl things and girls like typically boy things and
  that's okay too - so long as it is really their interests).and
  Tom + Jerry really *is* a violent cartoon - but cartoon violence
  is, well, FUNNY - so absurd an... "