^If you are unhappy, you have only yourself to blame. Other
people or things can give you an outside FOCUS for your
unhappiness, but they are not the CAUSE. It is your own desire
for things to be "just so" not matching up to your Reality that
causes your unhappiness. I expect at least 200 FB friends to
violently disagree with me, but I may get 2 or 3 to nod "yes!".
:-)^