[1]luster_side2We're all guests in each others homes. This forum
  is not my home, I am a guest here. I am also a guest in your
  home, through your phone/computer. You bring me in. I can't
  speak for everybody else here. I'm not everybody else. I'm not
  the homeowner. I'm just a wanderer. == "there is nought so vile
  as a fickle tongue; no friend is he who but flatters." Notice.
  I'm discussing with you as a friend. I am not merely flattering
  you, agreeing with you, Liking everything you say. I'm treating
  you as an equal to myself and not as enemy. I can't help your
  reception of me into your home. But you can take me as you will
  or reject me if you must. "no friend is he who but flatters". ==
  A year ago, I took one side of my family, downloaded 800 yrs of
  trees and made a "most common origins" word thing, to find most
  common areas of origin. [I'm a data nut - the more raw data I
  get the better] But while it doesn't show, there's a key branch
  that is Norse and goes back even further. This family side is
  Luster, aka Lyster, Lister, or in Old Norse, Ljostra - no doubt
  went from spear fishing in Norway to textile dying upon
  immigration to England.   == Now, this isn't the whole Luster
  tree - these are just the trees pertaining to myself only. I was
  annoyed to find a little French in there... not much for the
  French, so probably some self-hatred there. ==   My mother was
  invited several times to join the DAR (daughters of the american
  revolution) but she repeatedly turned them down as she found
  them to be a snobby bunch, regarding anybody who didn't have an
  ancestor touch a toe on Plymouth rock to be a n00b. But on
  Plymouth rock my ancestors did yet this the era I live in. ==
  But, if you do not wish to share your heritage with your
  potential brethren I can't stop you. But I'm 44. Since I was a
  young teenager I have been inspired by
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  - the monomyth and, on and off, studied where Joseph Campbell
  was correct and incorrect, and understand more than I can
  express the intense connection one has towards one's own
  mythological roots. It goes beyond timespans longer than a
  single lifetime back to ages that turn from mere facts in a
  history book into a living breathing tradition that travels
  through time and connects one today to their deepest roots. Why
  anyone would wish exclusive domain to theirs and not share it is
  unknown to me, but again, if you take my lack of instant
  agreement to your ideology - my probing and questioning and
  curiousity - as the "signs of an enemy", then, the loss is mine.
  ==

References

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  2. https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fupload.wikimedia.org%2Fwikipedia%2Fcommons%2Fthumb%2F1%2F1b%2FHeroesjourney.svg%2F2000px-Heroesjourney.svg.png&h=mAQHumA2_