It _would_ be that easy, but change that you're talking about
  doesn't happen. I agree that removing compulsory schooling could
  solve the issue, and then any issues between them could be
  resolved by friends, family, police, whoever is in charge of
  handling disputes that they can't handle themselves. But... it's
  not likely that forced schooling from ages 5-18 is going away.
  Until it does, generations of kids will CONTINUE to have to go
  through the meat-grinder. It doesn't just go away on a wish. I
  want it to as well. I think we have the means for it to go away.
  School DOESN'T have to exist anymore as it is. It's the product
  of an older time. But people have too much invested in it.
  Careers, money, textbook publishers. People use it as a
  launchpad for political careers. It's all bullshit yet it's not
  going away. So as great as your answer is: and I agree that it
  would be a fantastic start... no, I don't think I'm over
  thinking it at all. I don't WANT to have to think that deeply
  into it, but issues in the real world are very complicated
  because there are a lot of people who work hard to keep "things
  just the way they are". It pisses me off. It's not right. But
  until the status quo ppl are no longer an issue, we have to go
  through their stupid mazes and over think some things to come up
  with partial, awkward answers.