Thank you Jamie grin emoticon I try to be as earnest as I can
  be. I want ppl to feel as if we're hanging out in a bar
  someplace over a couple of beers or sitting on a bridge talking
  about how amazing stuff is. I don't always succeed but I try.
  Writing a LOT and listening to responses helps but I've got a
  LONG way to go to get to where I want to be.