the Internet is perfect for ppl like us. Mine's 3rd grade. I was
  lucky in that I fought back mentally and decided to deal with
  people as individuals rather than groups. I don't trust groups
  of 3 or more, and rarely groups of 2 even. I also try not to
  join groups. If I find more than a few people agreeing with me,
  I often flip to contrary mode because I don't want to be a
  majority opinion most of the time, especially if it requires
  belittling others, either who are there or not there. Keeps me
  spry... and annoying to deal with at times smile emoticon I'm
  agreeable one-on-one and in agreeable groups, but when there's
  disagreement, I side with the 'other guy', always. I could've
  been a defense attorney in another life, if there's such a
  thing. I call them "alternate timelines". Different parents,
  different life circumstances, I'd be up there defending the
  worst person, not to necessarily get them off - if they're wrong
  their wrong - but so that at LEAST they get their day in court
  and a decent hearing rather than a pitchfork and torch lynching.