Gave up on True Love (tm) myself. Felt it a few times. Fell
hard. Totally took me over. I didn't like the loss of
self-control once I snapped back and thought through how I
changed. Now a little piece of me falls in love with everybody
I'm in contact with. [usually online but even in real life].
It's transformed into a deep caring, almost like giving a
virtual hug to everybody who clicks a like, or responds in some
way. A little "thank you" feeling inside. It's not spread thin
though. It's more like raising the baseline of internal love
rather than seeking the peaks, and then having to experience the
eventual troughs. Can't say it's for everybody but I like who I
am, so it works for me smile emoticon