Just look up images for swag. It's the word for 'hot' in 2011-15
so far. Works for male and female. The swag poses are hysterical
honestly. What's considered 'hot' in each generation changes.
It'll cure your ills. [I find word-changes fascinating - my last
study was on the "dank meme" phenomenon and the way "smoke weed
every day" in 2011-2015 = "chillax" of the 90s, and "chill out
dude" of the 80s, etc.) Teens are always trying to be 'hot' /
'sexy' etc. Makes them feel mature. But yeah, after 27 yrs old
or so, when someone says, "hot" as in sexy, i want to pick a
mirror and show them their own faces and go, "Really?". I mean,
what you find 'hot' when you're 13/14 years old - if you STILL
find the same thing 'hot' when you're 20... and the _same_ thing
'hot' when you're 30. and the _same_ thing 'hot when you're 40,
50, 60, 70, 80... ... well... it means that person's kinda
stuck. I mean, it doesn't mean they *have* to upgrade their
interests with the times... but if they don't, they're gonna get
some slaps in the face here and there for leering
inappropriately...and watching friends drop away over time.
^apologies for somewhat judgmental post there ^ - I'm not trying
to tell ppl 'what's appropriate or not' per se... just noticing
when middle age women leer at guys in their late teens + 20s,
and middle age men leer at girls in the late teens + 20s....
it's, well, leering. I still remember friends' mothers who
thought they were MILFs... and, well.... they weren't. They were
my friend's moms. They... thought a little higher of themselves
and it was awkward. I got out of it, but it was awkward.
