Love takes practice and patience.. We're all fallible and it's
  hard enough on a moment to moment, daily basis to keep one's
  self in check as best we can. We're all in need of spiritual
  healing and love is primary beyond all else. Maybe if there's
  some spare time here and there, but the practice of love and
  caring can take an awful lot of time before you get a few spare
  moments to say "Hey, by the way, yeah, that thing you do? Maybe
  you could try something else instead?"