eah, I call myself honest but I know I can "spin" things in nice
  ways very easily. It's not dishonesty but... it's not black and
  white "harsh truth". I don't believe that truth has to be
  painful - I think that's just mean. You can be truthful and
  civil at the same time... and weaving in a little creativity is
  fine.

  So yeah, I use white lies. I'm careful about it.