It's by following the perfected human form (primarily right
attitude) is what "by me" means. It can be a moment of insight
that expresses it self through your actions and thoughts, or it
can be a lifetime of practice of working towards the form,
correcting mistakes when made.*
Those who use magical thinking that "say these magic words and
then everything is ok" really misses it completely.
While I'm agnostic, I know the proper theology. I try to live it
because whether or not I have any particular certainties about
it, it *also happens to be* a methodology of being a good person
in general.