It's by following the perfected human form (primarily right
  attitude) is what "by me" means. It can be a moment of insight
  that expresses it self through your actions and thoughts, or it
  can be a lifetime of practice of working towards the form,
  correcting mistakes when made.*

  Those who use magical thinking that "say these magic words and
  then everything is ok" really misses it completely.

  While I'm agnostic, I know the proper theology. I try to live it
  because whether or not I have any particular certainties about
  it, it *also happens to be* a methodology of being a good person
  in general.