I've even turned myself into a Mentor figure in various places
online. Weird dude with strange ways who says things that
almost-make sense but not just yet, or makes unbelievable
sense.*
I do that by trying to find ways I can make someone go at least
ONCE with me:
"Woah, you just blew my mind!"
if I get that - the "woah" factor from somebody, then I was a
success.
In harder cases, I'm nice-guy / helper role.
Since our culture is imbued with monomyth, figuring out "what
part" you want to be helps when dealing with people... as I'm
not really particularly social at all.