Especially with creative stuff. I mean sometimes you want to
  BATTLE: You thump your chest and you're like, "CHALLENGE ME -
  I'M READY!" and you want for a good opponent. But then other
  times, it's like, "Look, dude, I put a LOT OF HARD work into
  this and I don't want to beg here."

  Othertimes you want validation and support but you want someone
  to take it seriously enough to give you hints, opinions, ideas,
  brainstormings, and stuff.

  I dunno - I just like the idea of the group. In all the years
  online it's the first time I let myself join a "male only" group
  and I think it's the only kind I'd be ok with tongue emoticon