I like what I consider "reasonable bluntness". I may have an
opinion, "That mole looks horrible on your face." [not likely
because I don't pay attention to ppls appearances most of the
time] - yet would I express it?
Is it dishonest if I don't?
I don't think it's dishonest.
if my nephew is telling me a creative story that isn't factual
but is entertaining, do I stop and say, "You're full of shit?" I
don't - because the story is designed to be entertaining, not
factual. There's a difference.
Yet, if someone is trying to convince me something is true and
it's not, I call them on it. I also expect to be called on it if
I've got crap coming out of my mouth. I appreciate it too.
Sometimes I don't like it smile emoticon