Ok, intersecting paradigms might be:
Paradigm 1:
"I am a man in the USA. I am expected to be tough like John
Wayne."
Paradigm 2:
"I am a man in the USA. I am expected to be understanding and
thoughtful like Hugh Grant once he gets over himself."
Paradigm 3:
I am a human. Beyond the plumbing and some hormonal differences,
gender is a socially constructed collective fantasy.
Paradigm 4:
I am rational and think logically.
Paradigm 5:
I am a little boy trapped in a man's body, confused about what's
happening around me.
Paradigm 6:
I must be authentic as authentic people are. [see John Wayne for
male archetype]
Paradigm 7:
I must pretend in order to tie these intersecting paradigms
together.