I'm good at resolving arguments by... arguing, which is kinda
  strange when I think about it.

  My approach to arguments is meta. Do I want friendship after the
  argument?

  If I do, I choose whether to win the argument or win the
  friendship.

  I fight earnestly and honestly but when it comes down to it, I'd
  decide if winning the argument is losing the friendship, or
  winning the arguement keeps the friendship, or if losing the
  argument keeps the friendship.