Thank you for telling me your story Kimberly; I was never happy
  with the Special Ed direction I'd seen offered; and even the
  role of Guidance Counsellor was surprisingly limited... and
  Educational Psychology as a whole is a bit of a joke. Extremely
  disappointed at how children are viewed from an educator's
  standpoint. I never thought of a dichotomy though; but when you
  said "two different ways to teach", that helps explain the
  irritation I always had with education; I always felt they were
  "doing it wrong". I wish you the best in your struggles and
  you've provided some needed encouragement. I hope I take a step
  and don't just go "wouldnt' it be nice if".