maybe you have to grow into it. I started looking better beyond
my mid-30s, and, even with required hair-thinning that goes with
the territory, I think I look better and better every day.
Vanity of vanities! All is Vanity! but really, I realized one
day that my negative feelings about my appearance were based on
some 3rd grade taunting. I realized "those kids are long gone,
grown up; why should their taunts remain in my mind?" and I
purged them.
