The thing is, you're now in the People Management business.
I've learned more about myself from managing large crowds of
people online than I *ever did* sitting and contemplating
things.
So many conflicting personalities and yet somehow, you have to
manage the flow. As head, your words are chistled when you
participate. You're an Authority Figure. When people argue with
you, they're not arguing with an equal: they're arguing with the
teacher of their 4th grade class, or arguing with their mom over
why they didn't clean their room, or they're arguing with a cop
who just gave them a speeding ticket.
Can't be helped.
What kind of parent/teacher/cop will you be? I have no idea
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