Perhaps. Yet also, you win. Did I find you? Or did I click on a
  notification which led me to an html page which had an input box
  which I typed "found you" on, and then also clicked "Like" on a
  javascript 'button" so it changed to "unlike" and added a thumbs
  up icon and a number 1 next to it?

  In that sense, I didn't find you at all. So, you can have
  success and failure all at once, depending on how you view the
  facets of the diamond.