Good question. *I didn't realize I was implying about easier not
being valid though but I've never been very good at seeing the
implications of my words, so it's likely I did without realizing
it :P I have this take on it, that I fight with myself with on
many occasions: My perspective is valid and my existence is
valid. For me to come to full acceptance of my ownvalidity, I've
found, for myself, that accepting the perspective of others is a
requirement. In short, all perspectives are valid and all
existences have merit. Alas, that also includes the perspective
that says "Ken, your perspective is invalid and your existence
is invalid". The negation of my perspective or even obliteration
isn't so bad though. It's hardest when it's in the "uncanny
valley" as it were... where my validity and/or/both/neither/NA
the validity of someone else has a diverse set of connects and
disconnects. Sorting it all out is a detangling Christmas-lights
situation... whose electricity is passing through me to get
there at full Power Grid levels :P
