Yeah, 'cause when we die, all that's left of us here on this
  planet besides whatever physical remains their are are the
  stories people tell.

  If your life story is summed up as "Raped." well... that's not
  the best story to leave behind I suppose. I'd take rape over
  death as well. There's therapy. There's medicine. There's
  drinking, drugs, entertainment and all sorts of coping
  mechanisms. But when you're dead, well, you're dead. Oh
  absolutely. I'm not justifying rape. Anything that leads to
  PTSD/shell-shock/anything that gives you flashbacks whenever you
  close your eyes, is in the category of "A Very Bad Thing".
  They're in the realm of "a fate worse than death".
  I'm sympathetic to all people who are traumatized for whatever
  reason.
  I was just speaking for myself regarding rape/vs/death. Some
  people chose suicide after being rape or other traumas like
  surviving war - and I'm sympathetic. I just like ife and have
  gone through a lot to get _here_ and I want to continue as long
  as possible smile emoticon But I can't speak for other people.