One question I ask myself frequently is:
  Who am I serving right now?

  It helps sort out *why* I'm doing what I'm doing. I might be
  doing something a certain way because an Aunt told me I should
  do things that way when I was 7.

  Or perhaps a bad experience 'taught me' to do things a certain
  way.

  Or perhaps I'm afraid my friends will laugh at me if I *don't do
  it*. [like: if I don't go to work, I don't make money, I lose my
  job and go on social support... they'll laugh at me and think
  I'm less of a man]. So I'm doing it for them.

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