Oh it's just a case of looking in the wrong place.
  I spent years looking at psychology or sociology or one of the
  sciences for similar answers.

  I kept running into Jung, and then those who reject Jung.

  Went to CogSci. A little better, as they embrace Embodied
  Cognition in some circles, which is more suitable.

  But then one day I was like, "aweofijaoiefj - it's been in front
  of me the WHOLE TIME" - in society, in the way we _ALREADY_ do
  things.

  The "wisdom of the common" maybe? I dunno. I guess the realities
  come first long before the theories to explain them do smile
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