Oh and wrt the OP, I've gotten sort of a "true love? eh."
  attitude. But I believe in the power of friends, the kindness of
  strangers and I believe a deep connection is possible between
  people who just meet.

  Happens to me all the time. I can "feel" the connection. Happens
  real life, over the Internet, wherever.

  But true love? Eh. The "only-one-for-me" I kinda find to be a
  myth, but as long as someone isn't torturing themselves over not
  getting it, it's ok.

  But awakening love? Well, I like awakening a "something" in
  other people. I think of it as friendship, a deep connection;
  and it's love. But not of a "one-true-love" variety but rather a
  "Wow, we're like alternative timelines of each other" - a
  compatibility across spacetime that goes beyond gender, age,
  race, location, time - anything.

  or I could be full of crap. But I believe it.