Misunderstanding and Being Misunderstood are often the cause of
  fights. This is true among friends, romantic partners, families
  and even nations. One of the techniques often used during a
  misunderstanding is to rally the support of friends, family,
  neighbors and other nations. To do this, you have to tell a
  story. If you tell the story "well enough", you take ADVANTAGE
  OF the misunderstanding the one you're fighting against has
  about you, and use that to be able to say, "See!? See!? This
  proves our story is true!" One example in World Politics is the
  fight between several Western Nations and Extremist groups in
  the Middle East. These newer Extremist groups are *masters* of
  communication, which is why they are able to rally support
  rather quickly, while the West has been having a lot of trouble
  accomplishing the same goal. Fact is, the West HASN'T BEEN
  LISTENING to the story the Extremist groups have been telling;
  to get into the mind of a person who already in agreement but
  just looking for someone to give them the right words is not
  easy; This is not an isolated situation; it happens everywhere
  there are Groups. Within any Group above a certain amount of
  people, there always ends up being SIDES; and it's rare there
  are TWO sides within a group, but rather MANY. Some examples: a)
  Many extreme Christian groups in the USA will use the Bible to
  rally support in this fashion; b) a prominent scientist or group
  of scientists may use validated but selective Evidence
  (especially References) to help get funding for a project; and
  will often disparage other scientists or groups of scientists in
  the process; This sometimes has a ripple effect in Education;
  leading Textbooks to not only favor certain ideas but to reduce
  or eliminate many other ideas that don't cleanly fit. If
  masterfully done, a competing scientist or group can be set back
  DECADES in research, as they will struggle to get the funding to
  continue their work, now that the stacks are against them within
  that whole system. c) Politicians may quote famous politicians
  of the past to rally support for an election; but even moreso,
  using the other's words against them. This doesn't require any
  explanation as simply watching TV during an election year in the
  USA and you WILL see this kind of "setting the other party up
  for failure" in action quite clearly. d) The #1 place this is
  used worldwide is: Law. The WHOLE SETUP of Law - whatever that
  system of Law happens to be for; happens in this fashion; not
  Law in a pure sense; but as with all human endeavors, we are not
  computers; there's always SOMEBODY who someone else wants to
  CONVINCE - both FOR something and AGAINST something else
  simultaneously. And yes; I'm doing it too, right in this
  writing; it's part of the nature of 'convincing'; Now that I've
  potentially offended a good portion of readers; if you've made
  it this far, Here is the results of a study done by the Center
  for Strategic Communication at ASU. It was funded by the US
  military intelligence because, well, it's an area that the US
  military NEEDED more intelligence in - and got it. And now, I
  quote: "The most surprising is the near absence of the
  well-known *Verse of the Sword* (9:5) from the extremist texts.
  Widely regarded as the most militant or violent passage of the
  Qur*an, it is treated as a divine call for offensive warfare on
  a global scale. It is also regarded as a verse which supersedes
  over one hundred other verses of the Qur*an that counsel
  patience, tolerance, and forgiveness. We conclude that verses
  extremists cite from the Qur*an do not suggest an aggressive
  offensive foe seeking domination and conquest of unbelievers, as
  is commonly assumed. Instead they deal with themes of
  victimization, dishonor, and retribution. This shows close
  integration with the rhetorical vision of Islamist extremists.
  Based on this analysis we recommend that the West abandon claims
  that Islamist extremists seek world domination, focus on
  counteracting or addressing claims of victimage, emphasize
  alternative means of deliverance, and work to undermine the
  *champion* image sought by extremists."
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      Trevor Tidwell Know thine enemy as thyself.
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      Kenneth Udut Trevor Tidwell I love proverbs and sayings;
      they can successfully compress a whole load of complications
      into just a few, well chosen words. Thank you! That sums it
      up perfectly.
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      Kenneth Udut Trevor TidwellI also surprised myself; I almost
      never write about politics because I don't care for any of
      it; but at least I'm understanding better *why* I don't like
      it; it's the whole process of making someone else MAKE
      THEMSELVES look bad by tellin...See More
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      Trevor Tidwell As a politically active person, I totally get
      that. That said, everything wrong in politics, also happens
      to be the stuff that's most thrilling, intriguing, exciting,
      and fun about politics.
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      Kenneth Udut Trevor Tidwell I completely respect that - I
      don't follow sports * but I see a lot of parallels between
      sports and politics. I also see parallels in The kind of
      drama in reality TV - novellas and soap operas in the old
      days, and, in short, anywhere that you are rooting or booing
      with great attention to detail xD I tried reading the sports
      pages a few times in my life, and it read like a
      testosterone filled soap opera drama, set in the Fields of
      Battle. And I'm not criticizing any of it * I think the
      existence of all of these things is marvelous! And, as much
      as I say "I don't like politics " I know it's not entirely
      honest. There are causes that I could see myself fighting
      for - and, I have in the past and even subvertively at
      present. Fighting for a cause is completely political in
      nature - collecting negative things about that which I fight
      against, and collecting things supporting the sides I
      believe in. The one thing I HAVENT found - is a banner under
      which to join others. If the urge to fight becomes strong *
      and I have to create the banner myself? THEN I've just
      entered Politics itself - and could easily get shredded to
      bits if I wasn't prepared xD
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      Trevor Tidwell Oh it's terrible. I wish we didn't have to
      fall under party banners in order to get anywhere. I would
      rather just have a discussion as a whole, than try to keep
      up with factional conflict management.
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      Kenneth Udut Trevor TidwellYes - the discussion side of
      politics is interesting; but the "factional conflict
      management" (ooh what a great combination of words - I love
      it and may use it one day) is the part that makes it
      distasteful.

      Factional Conflict Management. Wow, 3 words and you've
      summed up successfully one of the things that I get
      'political' about; no matter what the topic is; It's when
      someone says, "ideal, ideal, ideal, ideal - and this is why
      MY ideal is better than YOUR reality"

      So, I find it my duty to point out, "I'm sure your ideals
      are great; but your REALITIES are just as bad as your
      opponents"

      Them: "Oh, our realities have nothing to do with our ideals.
      Our ideals are AWESOME, but THEIR realities are ATROCIOUS
      (lists examples)"

      Me: "But THEIR ideals are also pretty good too"

      Them: "Oh their ideals? hah! Laughable. I mean... just look
      at their REALITIES? (cites more examples)
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