^If someone wants to argue with you, you CAN use it as an
opportunity to get stronger. A battle of wits has invisible
swords and armor but they're there just the same, and when they
say "you're missing the point" you can laugh - because that
means they failed to stab you.
But, also: if someone wants to argue with you and you just don't
feel like it, you can be the first to walk away.
They can call you any names they like - and they will; but you
walk away the better person. You didn't go down to where they
are, in the mud of battle and you walk away clean.^
