In your hand, you have a branch. It's three feet long, two
  inches wide. But is it green and freshly cut or is it rotting
  away?

  -Kenneth Udut, age 14/15, on a school paper I wrote on Black
  Holes

  [Ken, age 42: ''When'' makes a difference. Who, What, Where,
  How, and Why are all great questions but perhaps the one of most
  importance is: When. Time moves forward in our 3D life, but it
  can move backwards, sideways, jump around, even turn inside-out
  in our minds. If something in the past is bothering you, let it
  go. YOU are keeping it alive. Use your mind to keep good things
  alive as long as you can: happy memories, the personalities of
  loved ones who you can't see anymore for whatever reason. But
  let the bad things go. They're just rotting you away inside. Use
  your imagination to graft yourself back onto a living tree
  instead, or turn yourself into a pumpkin if you like. It's your
  mind.]