Being true to yourself can be difficult. Other people around
  you, both today and echos from your past, nag you with THEIR
  ideas of what you 'should' be. They leave you feeling as if you
  are always doing the WRONG thing at the WRONG time in the WRONG
  way. Push them back in your mind. Be true to yourself. Change
  when YOU want to change. It's worth the struggle. -Kenneth Udut