When I say things happen for a reason, it's not glib or an
  expression. They simply do. Earlier, I was looking into my past
  for a woman who visited me from England when I ran the
  children's rights mailing list - Y-RIGHTS - back in '92 I think
  - Sarah Lawrence (now Sarah Fitz-Claridge) - Anyway, I didn't
  know she kept it up:
  http://www.utne.com/mind-and-body/taking-children-se... "