Spencer Abfall You're a teacher by nature. The way you think
  about things, process them and present them... is amazing. Love
  and hate are such difficult things for some, easy for others.
  One of the hardest: "Why does somebody hate me?" Well, figuring
  out reasons (the why) is hard - what's even harder is stopping
  and thinking, "Wait, what if they *don't* hate me and just
  misunderstand me?" - that takes some of the emotional content
  out of it. Thank you Spencer. I don't know how you do it. "