All there is, is how you perceive things. Reality is the real
you make it. A shared reality is when a group has a similar view
of reality - the muslim hatred after 9-11, a couple shares the
same dreams for a house or a better life for their children -
its a perception of reality. But what's really "real"?
Objectively, I can't say. Hopefully before I die, I'll have a
better answer! "