Men like being the a-hole once in a while. Its the man equiv of
being a b--ch, really - a weird kind of empowerment thing. The
difference is - men don't know when to stop until waaay too much
time has passed (5 days, a month or so) and when they say some
version of "only foolin ' - love ya", the ship sailed and the
party's long over. Been there, done that - hence
relationship-less by choice. Worst side of me came out far too
often, and I didn't like who I became. When you realize what
your behavior has caused, its the worst feeling on earth. "