Sex is not a sport.  Sex is not entertainment.  A women has the ability to grow a child in her body and a man has the power to father this child.  The family has the power to raise this child, the mother cares for, nurtures, mends, loves, the father encourages, plays, bridges community and societal gaps.  The husband and wife interaction with their children works together to bring a member into a healthy social fabric.
  A man and a woman must discuss seriously the idea of having sex for the purposes of procreation.  Anything else is self indulgent, non committal, and unhealthy.  Community, family and society works best if man and woman take their interest in sex responsibly.  Actions without guidance, forethought and responsibility create burdens on the individual, community resources and society.
  Sex is biorhythm.  Men go through a 100% cycle of testosterone levels each day, women 300 - 400% estrgen once a month.  It's that simple.  If we can understand our biorhythm we can be responsible with how it affects our lives.