One of the wonderful things I notice about married people is the confidence the woman imbues to the man.  What's even more amazing, to me, a male, is how the woman lives with this ego so humbly and with such persistence.
   This ego that derives from the family unit spills over into the workplace and other organizations.  The confidence the man derives from his family unit is a building block for society.
   The ego is not a perfect thing.  It encounters conflict with other egos from other family units and must find its place in a organizational hierarchy.  The woman also will impose conditions and limitations on the ego sometimes with merit and other times out of spite.
  I do not see this confidence coming from gay marriage except in stunted measures that appear false.  If it does exist it does not seem to extend beyond the boundaries of the relationship.  Will it however evolve into the healthy societal building blocks we see from traditional marriage?
The vitriolic communication is destructive.